long story short since i do not have more time, which i will elaborate more on later, we aren't moving into the house.
its all in the finanacing/mortgage people's hands.
so we are going to get another apartment, which we found lots of perks in doing, so it all works out nicely.
plus like my mom always told me and now i'm always telling him, everything happens for a reason, whether we see that reason in 5 minutes or 15 years we will see it.
but gotta go, breakfast is calling.